The THree IMPT Words.......
10th grade
As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She
was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I! wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she ! was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She
looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best! friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step! I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just t! oo shy, and I don't know why.
Gradu! ation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone
went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to kno! w that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn`t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks! " and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:
I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him bu! t I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!
I wish I did too... I thought to my self, and I cried.
i love u
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i love u
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i love u
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Send this to all the people that you love! Even if you dont love s! omeone send it to them....just to let them no that your thinkin about them!!
Send this to!
*5 people and ull have a bad love life
*10 people and ull get asked out by ir crush
*15 people and ull make out with ur crush
*20 or more people and ull marry ur crush
Selasa, 07 Mei 2013
Don't be shy to tell that You love her
The THree IMPT Words.......
10th grade
As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She
was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I! wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she ! was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She
looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best! friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step! I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just t! oo shy, and I don't know why.
Gradu! ation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone
went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to kno! w that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn`t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks! " and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:
I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him bu! t I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!
I wish I did too... I thought to my self, and I cried.
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
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Send this to all the people that you love! Even if you dont love s! omeone send it to them....just to let them no that your thinkin about them!!
Send this to!
5 people and ull have a bad love life
10 people and ull get asked out by ir crush
15 people and ull make out with ur crush
20 or more people and ull marry ur crush
10th grade
As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She
was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I! wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she ! was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She
looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best! friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step! I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just t! oo shy, and I don't know why.
Gradu! ation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone
went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to kno! w that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn`t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks! " and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:
I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him bu! t I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!
I wish I did too... I thought to my self, and I cried.
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
i love u
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i love u!
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Send this to all the people that you love! Even if you dont love s! omeone send it to them....just to let them no that your thinkin about them!!
Send this to!
5 people and ull have a bad love life
10 people and ull get asked out by ir crush
15 people and ull make out with ur crush
20 or more people and ull marry ur crush
Berani Beda!
Berani Beda!
Pernah nggak ngebayangin kalo semua orang didunia ini dilahirkan dalam bentuk, sifat dan kesukaan yang sama? Huaa....bakalan boring banget! Sebab unik adalah trademark manusia sejak dilahirkan. Bahkan kita sendiri suka punya keinginan untuk tampil beda. Sebab selain jadi ciri khas, berani tampil beda bisa ngebedain kita dengan teman-teman yang lain. Tapi...apa bener kamu udah yakin untuk tampil atau bersikap beda? Buat ngecek kesiapan kita, coba deh dicek dulu dengan pertanyaan berikut ini...
*Pendapat orang lain nggak begitu penting.
*Hidup gue bukan hanya untuk orang lain.
*Teman yang baika dalah teman yang mengerti dan siap mendukung gue.
*Gue nggak suka sama segala hal yang standar.
*Yakin deh, kalo gue bilang bisa, pasti memang bisa!
*Paling anti ngeohongin diri sendiri.
*Gue ingin perubahan dalam hidup gue.
*Percaya diri, itu pasti!
*Selama nggak bertentangan dengan nilai-nilai yang gue pegang, kenapa enggak?
*Gue menghargai pendapat orang lain tapi pendapat gue juga ada harganya lho!
*Ingin jadi orang yang sukses karena usaha sendiri.
*Gue bukan orang yang gampang terpengaruh.
Nah, kalo yang cocok sama kamu lebih dari 6, berarti kamu memang siap untuk tampil beda! Selamat ya!
Biar tambah siap tampil beda, kamu bisa baca artikel Psikologi di Gadis no 2 yang beredar minggu ini.
Pernah nggak ngebayangin kalo semua orang didunia ini dilahirkan dalam bentuk, sifat dan kesukaan yang sama? Huaa....bakalan boring banget! Sebab unik adalah trademark manusia sejak dilahirkan. Bahkan kita sendiri suka punya keinginan untuk tampil beda. Sebab selain jadi ciri khas, berani tampil beda bisa ngebedain kita dengan teman-teman yang lain. Tapi...apa bener kamu udah yakin untuk tampil atau bersikap beda? Buat ngecek kesiapan kita, coba deh dicek dulu dengan pertanyaan berikut ini...
*Pendapat orang lain nggak begitu penting.
*Hidup gue bukan hanya untuk orang lain.
*Teman yang baika dalah teman yang mengerti dan siap mendukung gue.
*Gue nggak suka sama segala hal yang standar.
*Yakin deh, kalo gue bilang bisa, pasti memang bisa!
*Paling anti ngeohongin diri sendiri.
*Gue ingin perubahan dalam hidup gue.
*Percaya diri, itu pasti!
*Selama nggak bertentangan dengan nilai-nilai yang gue pegang, kenapa enggak?
*Gue menghargai pendapat orang lain tapi pendapat gue juga ada harganya lho!
*Ingin jadi orang yang sukses karena usaha sendiri.
*Gue bukan orang yang gampang terpengaruh.
Nah, kalo yang cocok sama kamu lebih dari 6, berarti kamu memang siap untuk tampil beda! Selamat ya!
Biar tambah siap tampil beda, kamu bisa baca artikel Psikologi di Gadis no 2 yang beredar minggu ini.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
to my wonderful gal friends....wherever you are!!!
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one old love
she can imagine
going back to...
and one who reminds
her how far she has come...
enough money within her
control to move out and
rent a place of her own
even if she never wants
to or needs to...
...something perfect to wear if
the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...
....a youth she's content
to leave behind...
....a past juicy enough that
she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age...
....a set of screwdrivers, a
cordless drill, and a black
lace bra...
....one friend who always makes
her laugh...
and one who lets her cry...
....a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone
else in her family...
....eight matching plates, wine
glasses with stems, and a recipe
for a meal that will make her
guests feel honored..
....a feeling of control over
her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
....how to fall in love without losing herself...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend
without ruining the friendship...
....when to try harder... and when to walk away...
....that she can't change the length of her
calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...
....that her childhood may not have been
perfect...but its over...
....what she would and wouldn't do for love or
more...
....how to live alone... even if she doesn't like
it...
....whom she can trust, whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...
....where to go... be it to her best friend's
kitchen
table... or a charming inn in the woods...when her
soul needs soothing...
what she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...
SEND THIS TO 3 WOMEN...
you will have good luck for an entire day..
SEND THIS TO 6 WOMEN...
you will have good luck for all of the year.
but if nothing else... know that you are truly
loved and thought of by the friend who sent
this to you... and that she only wishes the best
for you and your life...
Good friends are like stars....You don't always
see them, but you know they are always there. :-):-):-)
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one old love
she can imagine
going back to...
and one who reminds
her how far she has come...
enough money within her
control to move out and
rent a place of her own
even if she never wants
to or needs to...
...something perfect to wear if
the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...
....a youth she's content
to leave behind...
....a past juicy enough that
she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age...
....a set of screwdrivers, a
cordless drill, and a black
lace bra...
....one friend who always makes
her laugh...
and one who lets her cry...
....a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone
else in her family...
....eight matching plates, wine
glasses with stems, and a recipe
for a meal that will make her
guests feel honored..
....a feeling of control over
her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
....how to fall in love without losing herself...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend
without ruining the friendship...
....when to try harder... and when to walk away...
....that she can't change the length of her
calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...
....that her childhood may not have been
perfect...but its over...
....what she would and wouldn't do for love or
more...
....how to live alone... even if she doesn't like
it...
....whom she can trust, whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...
....where to go... be it to her best friend's
kitchen
table... or a charming inn in the woods...when her
soul needs soothing...
what she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...
SEND THIS TO 3 WOMEN...
you will have good luck for an entire day..
SEND THIS TO 6 WOMEN...
you will have good luck for all of the year.
but if nothing else... know that you are truly
loved and thought of by the friend who sent
this to you... and that she only wishes the best
for you and your life...
Good friends are like stars....You don't always
see them, but you know they are always there. :-):-):-)
50 hal paling romantis buat cewek/cowok kamu
1. Mandangin matahari terbenam bareng
2. Saling berbisik
3. Masak buat doi
4. Jalan pas hujan
5. Pegangan tangan -
6. Beliin kado/hadiah buat doi -
7. Mawar -
8. Cari cologne/parfum/wangi2an yang doi demen ... en ... pake tiap kali bareng doi
9. Jalan bareng di pantai tengah malem
10. Tulisin puisi buat doi -
11. Pelukan tuh obat yang umum buat doi -
12. Bilang I love You, ngomongnya hanya pas lu emank bener lagi ngerasain hal itu en pastiin doi tau lu bener2 demen ama die
13. Kasi doi kado yang beda misalnya bunga/permen/puisi de el el -
14. Ngomong ke doi bilang dia tuh satu2nya orang yang lu mau ... Jangan bo`ong! -
15. Habiskan tiap detik bareng2 doi
16. Pandangin mata doi -
17. Pas remang2 angkat dagu doi, pandangin mata doi, bilang ke doi lu sayang ama die. En---kiss doi
18. Pas lagi rame, saling gandengan -
19. Selipin pesan yang nyatain lu sayang ama die pas dia gak tau -
20. Beliin doi cincin -
21. Nyanyi bareng doi -
22. Selalu pegang doi di sekitar pinggang
23. Bawa doi pegi makan bareng en makan malem bedua
24. Spaghetti? (pernah liat cewek dengan petualangan?)
25. Pegang tangan doi, tatap mata doi, kiss tangan doi en simpen di ati lu
26. Dansa bareng doi
27. Gue demen pas doi sedeng tidur yang keliatan tanpa dosa di pangkuan gue
28. Lakukan hal yang manis misalnya tulis I love you di kertas sampe doi bakal ngeliat cermin buat baca tulisan itu
29. Minta ijin buat nelpon doi tiap 5 menit -
30. Pas lu lagi sibuk bikin sesuatu, tinggalin buat hubungi doi en ngomong gua sayang ama lu -
31. Hubungi doi dari tempat kerja lu buat ngomong lu lagi mikirin doi -
32. Inget apa yang jadi cita2 lu en kasi tau doi ttg cita2 lu itu -
33. Dengerin apa yang doi bilang en dukung doi -
34. Bilang ke doi rahasia/masalah yang lu adepin -
35. Kasi kesan yang baek ke ortu doi
36. Sisirin rambut doi dari wajah doi
37. Menggantungkan diri ke temen2 doi
38. sembayang bareng doi
39. Bawa doi pegi nonton film yang romantis inget bagian film yang doi demen
40. Saling mempelajari en jangan buat kesalahan yang sama 2 kali
41. Buat kegembiraan yang lu rasain pas waktu lu cuma bedua
42. Saling mau berkorban
43. Bener-bener saling menyayangi, ato gak usah tetep bareng lagi -
44. Enggak pernah ngelupain doi sedetik pun selama hari memberi en pastiin doi tau hal itu -
45. Sayangi diri sendiri dulu sebelon sayangi orang laen
46. Pelari bahasa laen buat ngomong hal yang manis
47. Kirimin lagu dari radio buat doi
48. Telpon bareng doi sampe tidur -
49. Belain doi pas ada seseorang ngomong kasar ke doi
50. Gak pernah lupain ciuman selamat malem. -
2. Saling berbisik
3. Masak buat doi
4. Jalan pas hujan
5. Pegangan tangan -
6. Beliin kado/hadiah buat doi -
7. Mawar -
8. Cari cologne/parfum/wangi2an yang doi demen ... en ... pake tiap kali bareng doi
9. Jalan bareng di pantai tengah malem
10. Tulisin puisi buat doi -
11. Pelukan tuh obat yang umum buat doi -
12. Bilang I love You, ngomongnya hanya pas lu emank bener lagi ngerasain hal itu en pastiin doi tau lu bener2 demen ama die
13. Kasi doi kado yang beda misalnya bunga/permen/puisi de el el -
14. Ngomong ke doi bilang dia tuh satu2nya orang yang lu mau ... Jangan bo`ong! -
15. Habiskan tiap detik bareng2 doi
16. Pandangin mata doi -
17. Pas remang2 angkat dagu doi, pandangin mata doi, bilang ke doi lu sayang ama die. En---kiss doi
18. Pas lagi rame, saling gandengan -
19. Selipin pesan yang nyatain lu sayang ama die pas dia gak tau -
20. Beliin doi cincin -
21. Nyanyi bareng doi -
22. Selalu pegang doi di sekitar pinggang
23. Bawa doi pegi makan bareng en makan malem bedua
24. Spaghetti? (pernah liat cewek dengan petualangan?)
25. Pegang tangan doi, tatap mata doi, kiss tangan doi en simpen di ati lu
26. Dansa bareng doi
27. Gue demen pas doi sedeng tidur yang keliatan tanpa dosa di pangkuan gue
28. Lakukan hal yang manis misalnya tulis I love you di kertas sampe doi bakal ngeliat cermin buat baca tulisan itu
29. Minta ijin buat nelpon doi tiap 5 menit -
30. Pas lu lagi sibuk bikin sesuatu, tinggalin buat hubungi doi en ngomong gua sayang ama lu -
31. Hubungi doi dari tempat kerja lu buat ngomong lu lagi mikirin doi -
32. Inget apa yang jadi cita2 lu en kasi tau doi ttg cita2 lu itu -
33. Dengerin apa yang doi bilang en dukung doi -
34. Bilang ke doi rahasia/masalah yang lu adepin -
35. Kasi kesan yang baek ke ortu doi
36. Sisirin rambut doi dari wajah doi
37. Menggantungkan diri ke temen2 doi
38. sembayang bareng doi
39. Bawa doi pegi nonton film yang romantis inget bagian film yang doi demen
40. Saling mempelajari en jangan buat kesalahan yang sama 2 kali
41. Buat kegembiraan yang lu rasain pas waktu lu cuma bedua
42. Saling mau berkorban
43. Bener-bener saling menyayangi, ato gak usah tetep bareng lagi -
44. Enggak pernah ngelupain doi sedetik pun selama hari memberi en pastiin doi tau hal itu -
45. Sayangi diri sendiri dulu sebelon sayangi orang laen
46. Pelari bahasa laen buat ngomong hal yang manis
47. Kirimin lagu dari radio buat doi
48. Telpon bareng doi sampe tidur -
49. Belain doi pas ada seseorang ngomong kasar ke doi
50. Gak pernah lupain ciuman selamat malem. -
Senin, 06 Mei 2013
Cinta Memang Bisa Bikin Buta
*Jakarta*, Cinta.. cinta... cinta, topik yang satu ini memang tak akan
ada habisnya dibahas. Berbagai perasaan timbul ketika jatuh cinta;
senang, bahagia, bahkan sampai terpuruk karena sakit hati. Intinya,
jatuh cinta.. memang sejuta rasanya!
Nah, perasaan tersebut menimbulkan rasa penasaran para peneliti. Mereka
pun peneliti aktivitas otak dan tubuh seseorang ketika sedang jatuh cinta.
Dilansir BBC, Rabu (16/8/2006) penelitian oleh Universitas London
membuktikan ketika sedang jatuh cinta, bagian otak manusia yang
mengontrol pikiran-pikiran kritis agak terganggu. Namun ini tak hanya
berlaku untuk cinta pada kekasih, kecintaan ibu pada anaknya juga bisa
menghasilkan hal serupa.
Penelitian ini melibatkan 20 orang yang diminta untuk memberikan
pendapat soal orang yang dicintainya. Sebelumnya, mereka ditunjukkan
foto orang tersebut.
Perasaan jatuh cinta membuat aktivitas otak yang terkait dengan
penilaian kritis menjadi terganggu. Aktivitas yang menimbulkan
emosi-emosi negatif pun menjadi berkurang.
Tak hanya itu saja, terjadi peningkatan aktivitas di bagian otak yang
merespon terhadap reward atau hal-hal baik. Sedangkan bagian otak yang
biasa membuat penilaian-penilaian negatif mengalami penurunan aktivitas.
Para responden ini seakan di'buta'kan oleh cinta mereka sehingga
penilaian tentang pasangan mereka tak seobyektif biasanya. Penilaian
terhadap orang yang dicintai lebih cenderung ke penilaian yang bersifat
positif. Sedangkan hal-hal negatif atau kesalahan pasangan kerap
terlewatkan oleh mereka.
Nah, yang membedakan antara cinta kekasih dan keluarga adalah, cinta
dengan kekasih bisa memicu aktivitas di hypotalamus. Hypotalamus ini
bertugas untuk mengontrol rangsangan yang berbau seksual.
Sementara itu, penelitian lain membuktikan, pria dan wanita yang sedang
jatuh cinta juga mengalami perubahan hormon. Pria yang sedang jatuh
cinta mengalami penurunan hormon testoteron sedangkan pada wanita
terjadi peningkatan hormon testoteron. Aktivitas ini terjadi pada enam
bulan pertama pasangan tersebut mulai jatuh cinta.
"Pria, menjadi seperti wanita, sedangkan wanita menjadi seperti pria.
Sepertinya ala, ingin menghilangkan perbedaan antara pria dan wanita
agar mereka bisa bersatu," ujar peneliti asal Italia, Donatella
Marazziti dari Universitas Pisa.
ada habisnya dibahas. Berbagai perasaan timbul ketika jatuh cinta;
senang, bahagia, bahkan sampai terpuruk karena sakit hati. Intinya,
jatuh cinta.. memang sejuta rasanya!
Nah, perasaan tersebut menimbulkan rasa penasaran para peneliti. Mereka
pun peneliti aktivitas otak dan tubuh seseorang ketika sedang jatuh cinta.
Dilansir BBC, Rabu (16/8/2006) penelitian oleh Universitas London
membuktikan ketika sedang jatuh cinta, bagian otak manusia yang
mengontrol pikiran-pikiran kritis agak terganggu. Namun ini tak hanya
berlaku untuk cinta pada kekasih, kecintaan ibu pada anaknya juga bisa
menghasilkan hal serupa.
Penelitian ini melibatkan 20 orang yang diminta untuk memberikan
pendapat soal orang yang dicintainya. Sebelumnya, mereka ditunjukkan
foto orang tersebut.
Perasaan jatuh cinta membuat aktivitas otak yang terkait dengan
penilaian kritis menjadi terganggu. Aktivitas yang menimbulkan
emosi-emosi negatif pun menjadi berkurang.
Tak hanya itu saja, terjadi peningkatan aktivitas di bagian otak yang
merespon terhadap reward atau hal-hal baik. Sedangkan bagian otak yang
biasa membuat penilaian-penilaian negatif mengalami penurunan aktivitas.
Para responden ini seakan di'buta'kan oleh cinta mereka sehingga
penilaian tentang pasangan mereka tak seobyektif biasanya. Penilaian
terhadap orang yang dicintai lebih cenderung ke penilaian yang bersifat
positif. Sedangkan hal-hal negatif atau kesalahan pasangan kerap
terlewatkan oleh mereka.
Nah, yang membedakan antara cinta kekasih dan keluarga adalah, cinta
dengan kekasih bisa memicu aktivitas di hypotalamus. Hypotalamus ini
bertugas untuk mengontrol rangsangan yang berbau seksual.
Sementara itu, penelitian lain membuktikan, pria dan wanita yang sedang
jatuh cinta juga mengalami perubahan hormon. Pria yang sedang jatuh
cinta mengalami penurunan hormon testoteron sedangkan pada wanita
terjadi peningkatan hormon testoteron. Aktivitas ini terjadi pada enam
bulan pertama pasangan tersebut mulai jatuh cinta.
"Pria, menjadi seperti wanita, sedangkan wanita menjadi seperti pria.
Sepertinya ala, ingin menghilangkan perbedaan antara pria dan wanita
agar mereka bisa bersatu," ujar peneliti asal Italia, Donatella
Marazziti dari Universitas Pisa.
cinta kasih
Customer Service (CS) : Ya, ada yang bisa saya bantu?
Pelanggan (P) : Baik, setelah saya pertimbangkan, saya ingin menginstal cinta kasih. Bisakah anda memandu saya menyelesaikan prosesnya?
CS : Ya, saya dapat membantu anda. Anda siap melakukannya?
P : Baik, saya tidak mengerti secara teknis, tetapi saya siap untuk
menginstalnya sekarang. Apa yang harus saya lakukan dahulu?
CS : Langkah pertama adalah membuka HATI anda. Tahukan anda di mana
HATI anda?
P : Ya, tapi ada banyak program yang sedang aktif. Apakah saya tetap
bisa menginstalnya sementara program-program tersebut aktif?
CS : Program apa saja yang sedang aktif?
P : Sebentar, saya lihat dulu, Program yang sedang aktif adalah SAKITHATI.EXE, MINDER.EXE, DENDAM.EXE dan BENCI.COM.
CS : Tidak apa-apa. CINTA-KASIH akan menghapus SAKITHATI.EXE dari
sistem operasi Anda. Program tersebut akan tetap ada dalam memori anda, tetapi tidak lama karena akan tertimpa program lain. CINTA-KASIH akan menimpa MINDER.EXE dengan modul yang disebut PERCAYADIRI.EXE. Tetapi anda harus mematikan BENCI.COM dan DENDAM.EXE. Program tersebut akan menyebabkan CINTA-KASIH tidak terinstal secara sempurna. Dapatkah anda mematikannya?
P : Saya tidak tahu cara mematikannya. Dapatkah anda memandu saya?
CS : Dengan senang hati. Gunakan Start menu dan aktifkan MEMAAFKAN.EXE.
Aktifkan program ini sesering mungkin sampai BENCI.COM dan DENDAM.EXE terhapus.
P : OK, sudah. CINTA-KASIH mulai terinstal secara otomatis. Apakah
iniwajar?
CS : Ya, anda akan menerima pesan bahwa CINTA-KASIH akan terus diinstal
kembali dalam HATI anda. Apakah anda melihat pesan tersebut
P : Ya. Apakah sudah selesai terinstal?
CS : Ya, tapi ingat bahwa anda hanya punya program dasarnya saja. Anda
perlu mulai menghubungkan HATI yang lain untuk mengupgradenya.
P : Oops. Saya mendapat pesan error. Apa yang harus saya lakukan?
CS : Apa pesannya?
P : ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENT". apa artinya?
CS : Jangan kuatir, itu masalah biasa. Artinya, program CINTA-KASIH
diset untuk aktif di HATI eksternal tetapi belum bisa aktif dalam HATI internal anda. Ini adalah salah satu kerumitan pemrograman, tetapi dalam istilah non-teknis ini berarti anda harus men-"CINTA-KASIH"-i mesin anda sendiri sebelum men-"CINTA-KASIH"-i mesin orang lain.
P : Lalu apa yang harus saya lakukan?
CS : Dapatkan anda klik pulldown direktori yang disebut "PASRAH"?
P : Ya, sudah.
CS : Bagus. Pilih file-file berikut dan salin ke direktori "MYHEART"
MEMAAFKAN-DIRI-SENDIRI.DOC, dan MENYADARI-KEKURANGAN.TXT. sistem akan menimpa file-file konflik dan mulai memperbaiki program-program yang salah. Anda juga perlu mengosongkan Recycle Bin untuk memastikan program-program yang salah tidak muncul kembali.
P : Sudah. Hei! HATI saya terisi file-file baru. SENYUM.MPG aktif dimonitor saya dan menandakan bahwa DAMAI.EXE dan KEPUASAN.COM dikopi ke HATI. Apakah ini wajar?
CS : Kadang-kadang. Orang lain mungkin perlu waktu untuk mendownloadnya. Jadi CINTA-KASIH telah terinstal dan aktif. Anda harus bisa menanganinya dari sini. Ada satu lagi hal yang penting.
P : Apa?
CS : CINTA-KASIH adalah freeware. Pastikan untuk memberikannya kepada
orang lain yang anda temui. Mereka akan share ke orang lain dan seterusnya sampai anda akan menerimanya kembali.
P : Pasti. Terima kasih atas bantuannya.
Pelanggan (P) : Baik, setelah saya pertimbangkan, saya ingin menginstal cinta kasih. Bisakah anda memandu saya menyelesaikan prosesnya?
CS : Ya, saya dapat membantu anda. Anda siap melakukannya?
P : Baik, saya tidak mengerti secara teknis, tetapi saya siap untuk
menginstalnya sekarang. Apa yang harus saya lakukan dahulu?
CS : Langkah pertama adalah membuka HATI anda. Tahukan anda di mana
HATI anda?
P : Ya, tapi ada banyak program yang sedang aktif. Apakah saya tetap
bisa menginstalnya sementara program-program tersebut aktif?
CS : Program apa saja yang sedang aktif?
P : Sebentar, saya lihat dulu, Program yang sedang aktif adalah SAKITHATI.EXE, MINDER.EXE, DENDAM.EXE dan BENCI.COM.
CS : Tidak apa-apa. CINTA-KASIH akan menghapus SAKITHATI.EXE dari
sistem operasi Anda. Program tersebut akan tetap ada dalam memori anda, tetapi tidak lama karena akan tertimpa program lain. CINTA-KASIH akan menimpa MINDER.EXE dengan modul yang disebut PERCAYADIRI.EXE. Tetapi anda harus mematikan BENCI.COM dan DENDAM.EXE. Program tersebut akan menyebabkan CINTA-KASIH tidak terinstal secara sempurna. Dapatkah anda mematikannya?
P : Saya tidak tahu cara mematikannya. Dapatkah anda memandu saya?
CS : Dengan senang hati. Gunakan Start menu dan aktifkan MEMAAFKAN.EXE.
Aktifkan program ini sesering mungkin sampai BENCI.COM dan DENDAM.EXE terhapus.
P : OK, sudah. CINTA-KASIH mulai terinstal secara otomatis. Apakah
iniwajar?
CS : Ya, anda akan menerima pesan bahwa CINTA-KASIH akan terus diinstal
kembali dalam HATI anda. Apakah anda melihat pesan tersebut
P : Ya. Apakah sudah selesai terinstal?
CS : Ya, tapi ingat bahwa anda hanya punya program dasarnya saja. Anda
perlu mulai menghubungkan HATI yang lain untuk mengupgradenya.
P : Oops. Saya mendapat pesan error. Apa yang harus saya lakukan?
CS : Apa pesannya?
P : ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENT". apa artinya?
CS : Jangan kuatir, itu masalah biasa. Artinya, program CINTA-KASIH
diset untuk aktif di HATI eksternal tetapi belum bisa aktif dalam HATI internal anda. Ini adalah salah satu kerumitan pemrograman, tetapi dalam istilah non-teknis ini berarti anda harus men-"CINTA-KASIH"-i mesin anda sendiri sebelum men-"CINTA-KASIH"-i mesin orang lain.
P : Lalu apa yang harus saya lakukan?
CS : Dapatkan anda klik pulldown direktori yang disebut "PASRAH"?
P : Ya, sudah.
CS : Bagus. Pilih file-file berikut dan salin ke direktori "MYHEART"
MEMAAFKAN-DIRI-SENDIRI.DOC, dan MENYADARI-KEKURANGAN.TXT. sistem akan menimpa file-file konflik dan mulai memperbaiki program-program yang salah. Anda juga perlu mengosongkan Recycle Bin untuk memastikan program-program yang salah tidak muncul kembali.
P : Sudah. Hei! HATI saya terisi file-file baru. SENYUM.MPG aktif dimonitor saya dan menandakan bahwa DAMAI.EXE dan KEPUASAN.COM dikopi ke HATI. Apakah ini wajar?
CS : Kadang-kadang. Orang lain mungkin perlu waktu untuk mendownloadnya. Jadi CINTA-KASIH telah terinstal dan aktif. Anda harus bisa menanganinya dari sini. Ada satu lagi hal yang penting.
P : Apa?
CS : CINTA-KASIH adalah freeware. Pastikan untuk memberikannya kepada
orang lain yang anda temui. Mereka akan share ke orang lain dan seterusnya sampai anda akan menerimanya kembali.
P : Pasti. Terima kasih atas bantuannya.
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